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First post, hey everyone. I'm sorry if my username offends anyone, it's not meant to. I'm actually a straight girl, haha.
This came out a lot bitchier then I intended... D: Oh well. My boyfriend broke up with me on Sunday, after a nine-month relationship.

This wouldn't bother me so much, but, well... Yeah. I have the whole thing here. I swear I'm not as bitchy as this rant makes me out to be!!


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chris_durand
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Hi guys, my name's Chris, and this is my first post... I just want to rant and maybe get some comforting, because I really, really need it.

Okay, as a start, I'm bisexual, leaning more towards guys. If you have a problem, please don't respond. That having been said, here goes...

I'm broken when it comes to love. The boy I've fawned over for the past half year has moved across the state. Knowing that it was gonna have to be said, I told him, and unfortunately, neither of us has it in them to handle long-distance deals. Nothing either of us can do, right? If I could just drop everything to be with him, I would. But, as much as I adore him, going to him would mean abandoning everything else here, and I can't do that until I'm sure he's The One. And I can't do that without being in a... non-distance relationship. :-p

So, right now, I'm done with relationships of any kind. No sex, no love, nothing. He was the first bisexual guy I've met that wasn't a pompous, snide, skinny goth kid. I also have no interest in full-on gay guys, because the only type I've met are the Lady GaGa-listening ones that have the incredibly annoying mannerisms that tell me we'd never get on in a relationship. As this guy once put it, 'Bisexuality is a part of me; I don't wear it on my sleeve,' which is my philosophy to the letter.

I will be out in the place he is all of next summer. I don't see myself getting over this any time soon because the big chance to be with him is still there, y'know? In the words of Adele, 'Should I give up, or should I just keep chasing pavements,' guys?
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jfa_jr
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jfa_jr

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http://www.greatcareerplan.com/profile/josephandrejcik


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xtruetomyheartx
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xtruetomyheartx
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xtruetomyheartx
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xtruetomyheartx
 i left my husband of 2 years on dec 9th 2008.  i've never felt better, he was a cheating lying @!#$  
i took the 50" plasma tv too.  hehe

i'm excited about what i can do now, i can do ANYTHING i want!!  i'm considering living in Europe for a year, i have family out there and i think it would be awesome.  

i'm glad i got out sooner than later, i'm 27 and i feel like i've still got time before settling down again.

He wrote me this letter the other day and it pisses me off, such a typical response blaming me for cheating.  he's cheated on every girl he's ever been with.  lol that shoulda brought up warning flags there i suppose.  

Here's the letter:

You can’t just fuckin pack up and leave, see a lawyer, file separation papers, threaten my business, tell the world I’ve been cheating on you, make your family and MY friends hate me and then expect to take it all back.  

This can never go back to what it was.  You’ll never trust me.  Your family will always hate me. 

I’m certainly not blaming everything on you.  But I think it takes two, and though I did do some things I definitely shouldn’t have, I think maybe those things were done as a result of how I was feeling about our relationship at the time.  I might not be the easiest person to live with, but neither are you.  You’re fully aware at how frustrated I was with a lot of stuff you did, or more importantly, didn’t do.  I’m not saying that I did what I did to get back at you or anything, but I think things like that contributed to my over all attitude towards things. 

My biggest frustration is that you’re a quitter.  The minute something gets hard you run.  You’ve been to college twice and quit, and now us.  I can’t deal with that. 

Again, I’m not blaming you.  You asked me if I’ll ever stop being like that.  I think I was like that because of the situation I was in... so yes, I’d like to think that I’ll never do that kind of thing again.  I really was crushed for the first week or two after you left.  But the longer I’m on my own the more I get used to it.  I work, eat, sleep. I argue with no one.  The house is clean 100% of the time.  The laundry gets done.  The bed is made every day and there are no clothes on the floor.  Simple stuff... but then that’s all I ever asked you for. 

And that’s how I’m feeling.


kinda made me angry, but it just confirms the reason i left in the first place.  our house was not a mess!  he makes it sound like i was a slob.  

anyone else going through seperation/divorce that wants to add me as a friend?  i just started my journal, my first entry will be today.  i'd love to have some support.  (and i'm a real good listener)

thanks

K


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breathincorpse
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breathincorpse

 It's been a year and a half. I intend on breaking up with him tonight.
He's m,y whole world, my everything, my center of gravity, if you will.
But he has become intolerable. 
He hurts me.
far too often.
Not phyical abuse, but mental.
I dont feel like I am necesary to him anymore.
And when he says he loves me, I don't believe him anymore.
I'm scared to be without him.
But I can't stay with him if he doesn't change the way he's been treating me.

*sigh*

We'll see what happens, I suppose.

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kristy
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kristy
Welcome to the community. Anyone is welcome.

Please remember to make all posts FRIENDS ONLY!

Thanks

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